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El Al's Historic Flight Over Saudi Arabia Sep 1, 2020 | by Jeff Jacobyprint article 52 SHARES

 

El Al's Historic Flight Over Saudi Arabia

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El Al's Historic Flight Over Saudi Arabia

It's encouraging to see prominent Arab thinkers – and the first Arab government in more than 25 years – rejecting the old rancor, and enumerating the gains peace can make possible.


“In a historic milestone, an Israeli passenger plane flew through Saudi Arabian airspace Monday on the first direct non-cargo flight between Israel and the United Arab Emirates,” The Times of Israel reports yesterday. “El Al Flight 971, carrying high-level Israeli and US delegations, flew southeast down almost the entire length of Saudi Arabia to reach its destination in Abu Dhabi. It was the first time an Israeli plane was given permission by the kingdom to use its airspace.”

The times, they are a-changing.

Coverage of the agreement to normalize ties between Israel and the United Arab Emirates has focused largely on the historic démarche of a Gulf Arab country making peace with the Jewish state, and on the irrelevance of the Palestinian-Israeli conflict to the deal. Not enough attention has been paid to what the UAE expects to gain out of establishing normal ties with Israel. Abu Dhabi, after all, isn’t breaking with the decades-long Arab refusal to accept Israel’s legitimacy merely to make a point about the brotherhood of mankind.

To be sure, there is interest in drawing closer to Israel because of its resistance to Iranian aggression, which is a threat to the Sunni states on the Arabian peninsula just as it is to Israel. But don’t lose sight of the economic factors at play.

Since petroleum prices crashed in 2014, the Gulf’s oil riches haven’t been nearly as fabulous as they once were. The coronavirus pandemic accelerated oil’s decline; the UAE is looking at a fall of 30% or more in its petro-revenues this year. The world will eventually get back to normal, but oil revenues in a world increasingly reliant on natural gas and renewable energy are likely never to reach the heights they once did.

The Gulf oil states know their future lies beyond oil, and are making a concerted push to expand tourism and technology. “Dubai, which has been running low on oil for a long time, is the furthest along of all,” reports the Israeli newspaper Haaretz. “It gets only a tiny percentage of its GDP from petroleum; the rest comes from serving as a global logistics, financial, and aviation hub, as well as property development.”

Especially when it comes to high tech, science, and defense, no country in the region can provide the UAE with the scientific know-how and research sophistication that Israel can. And leading voices in the Emirati media are saying so, as a recent dispatch by MEMRI, the Middle East Media Research Institute, makes clear.

“We have much to learn from the Israeli experience,” wrote Yousuf Al-Sharif in Al-Bayan, a popular Arabic newspaper in Dubai. His admiration for Israel borders on fulsome:

In the 70 years since it declared its independence, Israel has faced many challenges: the challenges of establishing a state . . . and of maintaining its security amid this historic conflict. This is experience we can benefit from and study in depth, putting aside our emotions and sympathy for one side at the expense of the other. The fact is that Israel has excelled at [maintaining its security]. . . . Israel has strategic military and defense plans that allowed it to stand fast throughout this period, despite wars . . . which almost threatened its existence. We should benefit from this experience and plumb the secrets that led to its [successful] outcomes.

In recent years, the world has suffered continent-spanning terror, with bombings and terror attacks reaching many countries across the globe. Many advanced countries in Europe failed to protect their cities and citizens. . . . Israel's general and military intelligence apparatus is one of the strongest in the world, and it possesses military technology that it developed extensively over the years. . . . But this technology never reached our Arab countries and we did not benefit from it, although we desperately need it in light of the ongoing threats. . . . We must be realistic and [acknowledge] that Israel and the Israeli companies working in this field are more advanced than other companies around the world and are several steps ahead of them. This means that we can derive a lot of benefit from [ties with Israel] in the coming years.

Even more enthusiastic is Manahel Thabet, a economist and consultant from Yemen who lives in the UAE. She also writes in Al-Bayan:

Israel spends about 4.7% of its national income on scientific research, and its universities score high in global rankings… It has 55 institutions of higher education, including eight universities…

Scientific research in Israel focuses on the fields of computers, the information industry, the software industry, nuclear science and technology, the study of space and its applications, and biological and medical technology. . . . Israel leads the world in production and research. Israeli researchers have published 138,881 well-conducted studies in scientific journals. . . . As for [Israeli] patents, they are the most blatant indication of the gap between the Arabs and Israel, which has registered about 16,805 patents.”

Thabet hails “the wise leadership of the UAE” for overcoming the anti-Israel “complex” that still plagues much of Arab society.

Special boarding passes were printed to commemorate El Al's first direct flight today between Tel Aviv and Abu Dhabi

Plainly, attitudes are evolving. An Arab boycott of Israel that for decades seemed implacable is increasingly falling out of favor with Arab thinkers, diplomats, and journalists who have come to see it as counterproductive. In the New York Times last November, correspondent David Halbfinger reported on a “new group of liberal-minded Arab thinkers from across the Middle East who are pushing to engage with Israel on the theory that it would aid their societies and further the Palestinian cause.” Members of the group

share a view that isolating and demonizing Israel has cost Arab nations billions in trade. They say it has also undercut Palestinian efforts to build institutions for a future state, and torn at the Arab social fabric, as rival ethnic, religious, and national leaders increasingly apply tactics that were first tested against Israel.

“Arabs are the boycott’s first – and only – victims,” Eglal Gheita, an Egyptian-British lawyer, declared.

Among the group’s organizers is someone with a famous name: Anwar Sadat, the nephew and namesake of the Egyptian president who signed the first Arab peace treaty with Israel. Another organizer, Mustafa el-Dessouki, is the managing editor of an influential Saudi-funded newsmagazine. He told Halbfinger that he meets more and more Arabs who share his view that their governments’ hostility to the Jewish state is primitive and passé and who “actually want to connect with Israelis.” Granted, that is still a minority view in the Arab world. It will take a while for it to spread widely among the Arab and Muslim grassroots. But the UAE’s rulers, attuned to the benefits closer ties with Israel can generate, aren’t waiting for grassroots approval – and other Arab leaders, if they are wise, will follow suit.

The British historian Paul Johnson suggested once that antisemitism – which has fueled the Arabs’ commercial and diplomatic animus toward Israel – should be seen as a kind of intellectual disease , fundamentally irrational and highly infectious. It exerts great self-destructive force, Johnson argued, severely harming countries and societies that engage in it. In a pattern that has recurred so predictably that he dubbed it a “historical law,” nations that make Jewish life untenable condemn themselves to decline and weakness.

Antisemitism exerts great self-destructive force, Johnson argued, severely harming countries and societies that engage in it.

It was true of Spain after it expelled the Jews in 1492, wrote Johnson, true of czarist Russia’s anti-Jewish repression, and true of Nazi Germany’s descent into demonic Jew-hatred under the Nazis, which led to a cataclysmic military defeat and a Cold War rupture that lasted half a century.

It has likewise been true of the “100 million or more Arabs, marching under the banner of antisemitism” all these years. Long steeped in Jew-hatred and obsessed with Israel, the Arabs squandered vast oil riches “on weapons of war and propaganda… In their flight from reason, they have failed to modernize or civilize their societies, to introduce democracy, or to consolidate the rule of law.” Arab culture once led the world in learning, innovation, and pluralism. Today it is a world leader in almost nothing, save fratricidal violence and Islamist fanaticism.

Shunning and demonizing Israel for so long gained the Arab world little. It is wonderfully encouraging to see prominent Arab thinkers – and the first Arab government in more than a quarter-century – rejecting the old rancor, and enumerating the gains peace can make possible. May those gains proliferate and become evident to all, and may Abu Dhabi’s leadership in making peace with Jerusalem be emulated across the Middle East.

This op-ed originally appeared in “Arguable,” a weekly newsletter written by Boston Globe columnist Jeff Jacoby.


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Anger: What Lies Beneath

 

Anger: What Lies Beneath

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Anger: What Lies Beneath

Weathering the storm begins with understanding the forecast.


Anger is often misunderstood. This is because it is often represented by an outside behavior that serves to obfuscate the inner anger experience. When an individual feels angry, he tends to express this experience with destructive behavior – whether it's physically destructive (i.e. breaking things) or emotionally destructive (i.e. making hurtful comments).

The response by others is often focused on the external behavior rather than the internal experience of the destroyer. Like post-hurricane efforts, the tangible destruction must first be addressed by those on the ground prior to evaluating the causes of the storm or how to prevent future vulnerability. And for the one acting out, the outburst serves to divert attention away from his emotions toward a more tangible (and less personal) problem: the damage created.

The goal of this article is not to condone the destructive actions that may come about due to an individual’s feelings of anger. Nor is it meant to encourage others to ignore such behaviors. In fact, if one finds themselves the recipient of hurtful remarks and/or physical abuse or harm, I urge them to acknowledge the issue and seek help and safety for themselves regardless of their understanding of the underlying emotions surrounding such behaviors.

I hope to provide a degree of understanding of the internal emotional experience of anger to assist people with understanding themselves and others in their lives who may struggle with anger issues.

Desire for Emotional Connection

Relationships are upheld by feelings. Cultivation of positive interactions provides for emotionally flourishing relationships. But sometimes an individual may begin to feel distant from their significant other (this can be parent/child, friend/friend, romantic partners) and not know how to healthily repair the connection. They desire a closer relationship but don’t have the tools to accomplish this with finesse. And so, they resort to a more chaotic and raw form of emotional infusion: anger.

As a result of the “fight” both mother and daughter likely feel more emotionally connected, even if the emotion present is one of anger or hate.

Think about a mother and her teenage daughter who love each other, but have minimal emotional contact. Their days consist of crossing paths with little engagement. Suddenly, the daughter makes a snarky remark to which the mother responds angrily. The two spend the next five minutes yelling at each other slinging insults back and forth. The mother-daughter relationship, in those five minutes, is infused with the emotions which were so lacking during their generally meaningless daily interactions. As a result of the “fight” both mother and daughter likely feel more emotionally connected, even if the emotion present is one of anger or hate.

Of course it would have been healthier for the mother and daughter to find ways of expressing their feelings of care, concern, or love for each other without resorting to anger and fighting. But they seemingly did not know how to execute this sort of healthy interaction. So the two resort to anger, albeit unintentionally, to re-establish the emotional bridge between them.

With repetition, anger becomes synonymous with love and angry displays represent a comforting reassurance of connection. Anger becomes the emotional embrace that allows the two to maintain their relationship.

Replacement for Another Feeling

Anger is sometimes referred to as an umbrella emotion. When one experiences a feeling that he or she (often without awareness) deems intolerable, anger surfaces and overshadows the initial emotion. Anger serves as a replacement emotion which pops up to protect the individual from other unbearable feelings that arise.

The perceived intolerability of certain feelings can be rooted in familial or societal messages, whether overt or covert. Hearing messages or witnessing behaviors that communicate the wrongness of having certain feelings can leave an indelible mark on the developing psychological mind. Receiving messages of “Men don’t cry” or “just suck it up” to feelings of fear, sadness, or physical/emotional pain, serve to invalidate one’s internal emotions and send the message that these feelings are “not okay.” And when these feelings arise in the course of life (and they will because they are part of the human experience), we may find ourselves at a loss for what to do with these feelings.

So anger swoops in, with its mask and cape, and saves us from these uncomfortable feelings. Anger shoves aside the “not okay” emotions and, often with behavioral representation, distracts from the internal experience that is unwelcome-and often confusing and scary, as well.

Attempting to Assert Control

There is a sense of comfort and power that comes with having an internal locus of control. Believing that one plays an integral role in dictating the outcomes of his own life provides a sense of safety and security. When that sense of control begins to tip toward an external locus, which is a common occurrence, one may feel exposed, nervous, and vulnerable. To mitigate these feelings, a person takes steps to tilt the scale toward personal control. Anger is the finger on the scale that often shifts the perceived power back into one’s own hands.

You call your internet provider to dispute a charge. After being passed along the “hierarchy” of representatives, you are told that the charge will not be refunded. You yell, scream, slam the phone against the wall, and angrily express your discontent. Why this response? Because you are in a bind. You need your internet. You were already billed for that time period. You feel slighted, helpless, and as if you have no alternative but to pay the bill. You realize that the internet company, at least to a certain extent, has control over your finances. The control-scale has tipped in their favor.

Anger provides the illusion that you, and you alone, dictate the outcomes of your life.

So you try to shift the scales with anger. “I’m the customer!” “I’m going to switch service providers!” The louder you yell, the meaner you are, the more powerful you feel. You are reminding them that, in this relationship, the control is yours. While you may not get your billing issue changed, you feel more powerful, less helpless, and less vulnerable. Anger has provided you the illusion that you, and you alone, dictate the outcomes of your life.

Recognition of one’s own vulnerability in life, which is a reality since one does not have control over others or much of what happens in the external world, can result in feelings of fear, anxiety, a sense of helplessness, and overall experience of despair. Feeling as if one is not in control of the outcome of their life creates a loss of agency that can be paralyzing. Anger’s behavioral representation (yelling, breaking things, etc.) often provides an individual with a feeling of power and control.

With Understanding Comes Responsibility

A nuanced understanding of anger can act as an x-ray into an angry individual’s world and assist others in healthily interacting with said person. Importantly, people are not expected to be radiologists. It is each person’s own responsibility to learn to effectively express and manage the range of emotions, a task that is certainly made easier with insight into the source of their emotions.

Tips for effective management of anger:

  1. Step away: remove yourself from the situation until your anger subsides.
  2. Take a breath: breathe deeply and slowly (inhale for 5 seconds, exhale for 7).
  3. Intensely exercise: defuse your body’s energy with intense physical movement.
  4. Soothe yourself: positively engage your senses (smell, taste, touch, vision, hearing, smell). Smell a pleasant aroma, view images that elicit calm/joy, listen to music you like, eat something tasty.
  5. Understand yourself: When not in “anger mode,” take the opportunity to reflect upon your feeling/reaction, what triggered it, and work to understand what is causing you to feel as you do. Daily journaling can assist with personal exploration. Working with a mental health professional may also provide a forum for development of more intricate self-understanding.
  6. Rectify: With all the skills you may employ, there will be times when you act out. When that happens, take the time to regroup, own your behavior (verbally to the other person), and work to repair your destruction.

Recommended reading: Calming the Emotional Storm by Sheri Van Dijk MSW


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